Hear no evil | see no evil | speak no evil
Exposing a pattern or behavior is often , at times, the only way we know how to rid ourselves of it. Sometimes we get lucky and identify the problem. Other times we are stuck riding someone else’s agenda or better yet, lies.
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What did I learn during this epic adventure?
- Employees take their bad behavior home
Being deceptive at work, cheating on your loved one who is clueless and at home, living a double life at work is transferred from one place to another. You take this bullcrap home to your families.
- Reality is not balanced
A workplace is where you go and work and come home and handle your obligations. Not to place flirt with prince charming.
- Corizon Healthcare officially sucks
The healthcare workers are basically at the mercy of this dictatorship called Corizon. Corizon is such a ****hole company they might be worse than MDC.
- Infidelity and multiple partners
If you are in the unfortunate spot to have a loved one working here, you may want to get tested for everything.
- Anger is a huge problem. Resentment is a huge problem. The attitude is awful. MDC is such a highly stressed environment that it makes their employees have health issues. And no one cares.
The Final Chapter
The Metropolitan Detention Center has created a negative societal and cultural norm that is acceptable to everyone that works there, they foster a habitat of deception, infidelity, dehumanization, feelings of inadequacy, all that have led the COs, healthcare workers and contract workers to bring home that anger and think it’s ok to treat their loved ones like this. They use poor judgement that has ultimately cost them their jobs, their families and even their freedom. MDC will no longer drain my soul. It’s been a bigger part of my life than I care to admit. From being an inmate for over a year to having a former loved one work there, nothing good comes out of being at that place. Nothing. The sooner attention is brought to this topic, the sooner change can be implemented.
Goodbye MDC. Goodbye former loved one. You both were meant for each other. Your loss.
This is my final blog on this subject. After this is finished and published, I will archive it, turn it into a category, and make it available through membership only. The goal is for El Camino to archive and keep accountable every pertinent department that works within the horrible hallways of what society has dubbed, the system. A system that could work and save lives, but instead, it ruins lives. It destroys the lives of everyone around it. The next series will be focusing on Probation and Parole.
A simple ending
My conclusion is that every employee that works at MDC is at fault for marginalizing the inmates; for promoting a damaging culture to all that work there, for following their own personal agendas without care for the inmate, and for writing off the people that care about them who live at home in the real world. A human being cannot go to work in those conditions, with a workplace boyfriend who is married, to having 2000 clients to deal with, and a clueless partner at home. Do you expect to be productive? Am I the only one who sees this?
“If you have a loved one who works at this place you had better talk to them about what really happens out there at MDC Island. But, chances are you’re to late. “
Before I begin, I want to add a small note. I was an awful boyfriend. I focused on work, my career, and trying to make money. At one point in our noxious relationship, I forgot I even had a girlfriend., she was always working. This wasn’t by design. I am a felon; we have to work harder and put in more effort than non-felons. We have this impossible journey called bad luck; even when we serve our time, we are still felons. About a year and a half into our relationship realized that my behavior towards her was so numb that I basically stopped working to give her the life and attention she wanted. But I was too late; MDC had already put it’s claws in her and was changing her slowly.
Letting go of someone or something that you care for is one of the most difficult things you will ever do. When you have feelings for this individual or entity, letting go can feel like it’s an impossible task. But when you realize that you’re the only one fighting to keep hope alive, letting go can feel like a weight off one’s shoulders. MDC has created an environment that facilitates dishonesty, infidelity, anger, resentment and hate among corrections officers, healthcare workers, and the administration. This in turn has destroyed families, careers, and the loss of freedom. If you have a loved one that is working there, has worked there, or is exploring the possibilities of working there, unfortunately they have engaged or will engage in this type of reckless behavior. They have likely fallen victim to the brainwashing that MDC stresses on their employees.
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What the **** just happened?
I will never know what really happened. And it’s so twisted that you can’t find anything on Quora. The only thing I can tell you for certain is that my loved one started at MDC, the person I fell in love with, and changed throughout a course of a year, when she dumped me, and the next few times we tried to coexist, with me being her emotional support blanket, she was a completely different human. MDC did this, the cultural and societal norms had to be followed.
“Please do not believe everything you hear or see. Why? Because there are always three sides to every story. Yours, theirs, and the truth….“
Had I known what I know now, I never would have recommended MDC to my former loved one. Looking back, sending her into an environment such as MDC, when she had very little experience at the time was a recipe for disaster. Because there was so much deception, so much lying, a huge amount of gaslighting, I didn’t know what was real and what was not. About three months after she broke up with me, she tells me that she got dumped as well. I asked her what she was going to do and we basically spent a month together, this last month. I’ve never been lied to, treated like garbage, completely disrespected, and sick to my stomach as I was this past month. It’s nobody’s business what happened, but, lets just say, without my consent, I was forced into being her emotional support blanket, a totally friend-zoned, 4th string fallback guy. I had to walk away. And when I mean lied to, I mean by epic proportions. Next topic please.
Try to open your eyes
Seeing, in plain sight what’s in front of you, you begin to start to create a database of reality. You live in Albuquerque, not on some deserted MDC Island, where anything goes, because there aren’t any rules. Never sell yourself short.
Closure and letting go.
Both MDC and my former loved one played a huge part in my life. MDC, is simply hell, I do feel for these men and women, but that doesn’t give them the right to start a parallel life, or take their problems out on the inmate, or deceive their families. That’s not how the game should be played, why? Because that’s cheating the natural selection process, a process that shouldn’t be manipulated, let life lead the way. I’ve been fighting my entire life against life and it’s gotten me nowhere. I surrendered starting right now.
“It’s like walking on a tightrope, hovering between peace and the abyss“
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